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Re: “Smoking: Whose choice is it?

I am sorry but I am a non smoker who is allergic to cigarette smoke. No one has the right to make me sick and miserable just for wanting to go out to dinner. I should not have to wash my hair and put my clothes outside after going to a club because you want to smoke inside. Go outside please! I have no problem with smoking areas outside and away from the doors. You need to think of others. My health is not for smokers to decide. I have no problem if you want to kill yourself with those cancer sticks but please let us non smokers have some peace.

I just like Pokey lost family to smoking. I lost three grandparents to the effects of cigarettes. Massive lung issues and heart trouble. They died horrible suffocating deaths and their last few years were not pleasant. Does that sound worth it?

Don't you think I would have loved more time with them? If they had taken better care of themselves we could still be enjoying each other. Such a waste.

If the majority of the smokers of the world had been polite to the non smokers the laws would not have been needed. BUT...massive amounts of smoke at the dinner table and cigarettes put out in a plate next to mine is disgusting and rude. I have a right to eat out and not smell/see it.

This is not the government trying to control you it is the masses that are tired of it. We just used the law to fix the problem.

Posted by bitchy barbie on 06/08/2009 at 11:13 AM

Re: “Advice Goddess

I dated a guy just like yours when I was your age. Trust me, RUN FOR THE HILLS! He will continue to find things to complain about while he occasionally throws you a compliment. All of the fights will end in his apologizing but the apology will blame you somehow. I am sorry I yelled at you but you made me so angry. DUH! He may seem caring, attractive and too good to be true but what you are dealing with now is just the beginning. Eventually he will seperate you from all of your friends and any family that tries to tell you to stand up for yourself. He may also want you to wear more conservative clothing and less or no makeup. Then he may cheat with someone that looks like you used to and blame you for not looking as good as you used to. I know this jerk inside and out. He is a loser and you need to get out. I put up with it for way too long. Once I got out and dated one sane guy I never went back to that kind of crap again. I dated quite a bit and finally settled down with a real nice guy. You deserve better.

Posted by bitchy barbie on 11/14/2008 at 5:33 PM

Re: “'Guys, I'm going through something here'

I so feel for Kathy Roever. This should not have happend to her. No one deserves or should out live thier child. That being said and understandably so she is still living in the past. What I hope comes from this is a real grief counselor will step forward and help her! If she can't stop bringing it up or thinking about it she can't possibly interview well for a job. If she is telling the whole story at an interview she may be overwhelming the person interviewing her. She also can't go over the whole story about Focus on the Family at the interview. It will make her look defensive. But I understand why she feels she must. It hurt her deeply and she is worried they will beat her to the punch. Again this in NOT HER FAULT. Someone grieving like that does not necessarily know who and who not to tell their story to. Someone needs to help her get her life back on track. She sounds like a nice lady that had the unspeakable happen to her and is still standing. Kudos to you. Anyone out there qualified willing to step up? I just feel for her. And for the naysayers I lost two people I loved more than life itself within 5 years of each other. My first true love died in a F14 crash in Virgina while in the Navy and the other from Breast Cancer. We were best friends and roomates for over 5 years. I stayed with her until the end. It was tough. Both losses were devestating and without friends and family my life could have easily turned out different. Sometimes you just need help.

Posted by bitchy barbie on 10/12/2008 at 10:51 PM

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